Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Can Men And Women Be Friends???




(from Another blog!!!!!!)
not my words!!!!!!!! i tought it was cool

I say, yes they can. Though it's the nature of the relationship that exists between them that defines them.

Some people have a sexual relationship.
Some people have an emotional relationship.
Some people have a business relationship.
Some people have a verbal relationship.
Some people have an internet relationship.

Either way, it's a relationship between friends. What prevents them from going sour is how well each one copes with what they have, for some people get caught up within their emotions and read things the wrong way which leads to fears, accusations and unwanted advances, thus killing or altering the friendship.

Now most young girls will think that because a guy talks to them, he automatically wants to fuck her and is making a play for the pussy. Not entirely true. Sure there may have been a point where he had a sexual interest, even a long term mate interest, but once he got a whiff of the personality, relationship status or grooming habits, he quickly changed his tune. Or, and yes this does happen which is why I mentioned it, he simply just wants to conduct business and make new friends. Now I know that's hard for young girls to accept, but truth is you are not the only woman on earth, your pussy isn't made of gold, and not every guy thinks you're attractive.

I know what you're thinking: "Oh he's so mean! I bet you he doesn't have a GF."
Not true, I'm not mean, I'm bluntly honest. Also I am involved in an open and (refreshingly) honest relationship. She's free to do what she wants and I'm free to do what I want because we don't own each other, and because she's open and honest with me about everything, I respect her gangsta even harder than any other woman I've ever dated. For with all relationships, even friendships, it's all about trust. I trust her to tell me things she's done and vice versa, and that's just how it is.

Without trust, what type of friend do you have?
Is that even a friend at all?
What type of friendship is built on lies and deceit?

Exactly.